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Folks: Feelings are not interchangeable with facts. It is true that she feels this way. Feelings are real. But feelings are NOT the same thing as facts. Facts exist independently of what someone thinks, feels or believes about them. Feelings are entirely and completely a product of an individual’s own mind and heart.
The subtle innuendo here, of course, is “That attractive man is a bad man; a douchebag, because he won’t pay any attention to me. Therefore, it is all HIS FAULT.” The innuendo is that the rejection is not something she FEELS, but is something that the attractive man does to her by omission and by failing to act. Therefore, it is HIS fault that she feels this way. He is somehow responsible for her feelings.
This is all a bit like saying “I would like that job. I want that job. I would like to do that job. But I am not going to do anything to try to get that job. I am going to hang back here and wait for that employer to approach me and offer me that job. Oh noes! That employer isn’t talking to me! I’ve been rejected!”
No, you weren’t rejected. You didn’t get that job because you didn’t do anything to try to actually get hat job.
Bottom line: No one, male or female, is “passively rejected”. There is no such thing as “incompletely expressed attraction”. You didn’t get what you wanted because you didn’t have what it takes to get it, or because you didn’t do anything to pursue it, or because what little you did to pursue it was insufficient.
Life is not fair. LIFE IS NOT FAIR.