Then I saw her on the street last week and didn’t recognize her because she looked so much better in a summer dress. She was extremely rude to me as I walked beside her across a park asking how I even knew her. She wasn’t rude because I forgot who she was. She made it clear that she had never liked me at all. She slowed down to ask me “What do you want from me?” before speeding up again and finally saying “I have a boyfriend. There. Is that good enough to explain myself to you”.
I have to say this was the most outrageous rejection I’ve seen in 10 years from a woman as I’d been a perfect gentleman and had never even asked her out (I will never offer to just help a woman get a job again).
Obviously I hadn’t really qualified her at all.
Now whether I believe the late boyfriend remark or not is immaterial to the fact that I obviously shouldn’t have offered to help a woman find a job without first having her qualify to me that she also wanted to be at least friends including what her relationship status actually was. I didn’t need to wait 2 months to realize that I was dealing with someone who didn’t appreciate me at all and didn’t give a damn about any career help.
Luckily I had the chance to immediately put the new lesson about qualifying to use:
https://notes.netd.cs.tu-dresden.de/s/AMWlpPTQZ
https://notes.dynnammo.com/s/nd_5M2ojI
https://md.renjikai.com/s/gfoGM2jQU
https://md.kokakiwi.net/s/NkHANMG7B
https://md.fsmpi.rwth-aachen.de/s/4Cbdw_bSh
https://hedgedoc.catgirl.cloud/s/nUcNP-5t-
https://pad.cloud.abilian.com/s/MrFFu0GIt
https://pad.osm.lat/s/ixJ1IXIrF
https://hdoc.cnw.circl.lu/s/y5dWFGfGK
https://romeo-notes.univ-reims.fr/s/SREiiCJeV
https://hedgedoc.inet.tu-berlin.de/s/0ySvEp7Xd
https://digilern.hs-duesseldorf.de//md/s/02cCtMOE_
https://lab.nrw/hedgedoc/s/jaVWwtokd
https://hackmd.stuve-bamberg.de/s/L91TwmPT0
https://hedgedoc.ucc.asn.au/s/DmzeX5WfL
https://docs.lokavaluto.fr/s/0ZaDLazmU