It is an amazing paradigm shift from needing to *create attraction* to simply learning to become socially calibrated. Its a completely different way of being *effective* than the way PUAs think of the term *effective*. You become effective at something completely different – managing your time wisely and learning to invest only in girls that are likely to yield results. In other words you become effective at working with the reality you are presented with, over which you have no control, rather than become *effective* at creating something that did not already exist.
In a way it is a far less ambitious goal about which no grandiose claims of personal power and super-human skills can be made, so it lacks appeal to emotionally underdeveloped men who still live on dreams of grandeur and glory, but if you are willing to accept the realism involved here you can become powerfully effective in a very realistic way.
I expect I will get even more calibrated and calm as I continue along this path! Once again, thanks!
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Jake says:
December 26, 2011 at 10:08 am
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